Archive for June, 2009

The “F” in Critics

Years ago I learned that the percentage of your critics account for about 2%-10% of the noise in your life. That leaves a whopping 88%-90% approval rating!
This is what I didn’t know THEN, that I know now:
1. First, critics can be used by God. (gasp! ugh. Yes, He’s been known to use the most unlikely [...]

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The Source of My Laughter

I think a shared laugh brings people closer to each other. A shared laugh is intimate. A shared laugh creates lasting memories. A shared laugh breaks the ice.  A shared laugh adds value to relationships. This is what I’ve learned and this is why I encourage my kid’s sense of humor. I LOL at all [...]

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Atmosphere Changer

I will refer to a lesson I learned in Brazil. That beautiful country put some mettle in my spirit. Bridgeport, ironed that mettle out! (but that’s another story)
Everyday we were witnessing on the streets. We were rescuing street kids, offering them a place to live in our children’s home. One evening we came back early; [...]

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The Five People Who Have Had The Greatest Influence On Me

I was challenged to do this while reading the book ‘The Noticer’. Why wait to notice those special people in your life? Here it goes; in the order that I met them.
1. My mom- Single mother of 4. She taught me to be super responsible, to fear God, and to be resilient. We never missed [...]

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Hello world!

First, about my blog’s name. Well its how people sometimes refer to me.  I don’t mind it at all! I have been his wife for 11 years. That’s how long its been since I joined him on this Journey; pastoring and leading in the inner city. Prior to this I was many things all of [...]

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